"Five years after my divorce, I went back to “get revenge” on my cheating wife. But the truth I learned instead made my knees buckle. I stood in front of my old house in San Diego, California — a place that once smelled like morning coffee and echoed with my son’s laughter. Now it was nothing more than a museum of pain. Five years earlier, I’d walked away from this same doorstep as a loser: empty-handed, humiliated, my pride crushed by the woman who had promised to love me forever. Now I was bac